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Use whichever arms/disks suit your installation! Most peope use the arms, The disks work better with the type of pushrod connector that bolts through the disk, and then the rod goes through a little hole and is then clamped by a screw, similarly to the wires in mains plug! Regarding cutting the arms off, you only need to do this if space prevents the mounting of servos side by side without the arms on adjacent servos clashing, or if the control rod run is such that at full deflection, an arm clashes with the control rod. (ie in fully pulled position, the next arm in the circumference catches on the rod. If you need more arm outputs than you have, they are available as spares, or you can cut a 'V' notch close to one of the lines of holes in one of the disks to give clearance.
With the servos installed, everything plugged in, and the trim buttons adjusted so that they are in the centre, put the arms onto the servos so that they are at 90' to the length of the fuselage (in case you have put the servos in across the fuz, as some installations call for), so that they have equal movement fore and aft when you move the tranny sticks.
The important thing to remember is - when plugging the power and servos into the receiver, with the socket end to the right, the black wire in the plugs (-) goes to the right, (outside) end, and the signal wire, (yellow, pink, whatever) goes to the inside. The middle pin is the red (+) wire. So when plugging in the power wire, with only two wires, the unused one is to the inside.
When you connect the switch, if you use it, there are three connectors, one socket for the charger and two plugs, one red, one black. If you look on the plastic trim for the switch, it is marked on/off. In the off position, the battery can be charged without unplugging anything else, via the black plug. The red one goes to the receiver. If you have things set up like this, and nothing at all happens when you have the switch in the on position, but the servos work when supposedly off, swap the two plugs around!
Edited - Alistair beat me to it while I was typing a response